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Men do Love a Bitch – Crossing the line from Passive to Bitch-hood
Gettin’ your bitch on doesn’t need to involve bustin’ a cap in someone’s ass or hittin’ up some hot bitches. “Shit did you see Kayla last night? Dat bitch had her hood on!” Okay, so I may not be that … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged ass kicked, bee-otch, bitch, bitch-hood, bitchdom, biyatch, confidence, feistiness, inner bitch, men love bitches, mental challenge, moxie, no-nonsense, respect, sassiness, sexy, sexy bitches, strong spirited, strong will, Xena, Zena
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Taboo my Ass!! In Conclusion…
Way back in the Paleolithic era, (okay, so maybe it was April, but in blog time, that’s freakin’ prehistoric) The Scarlet Dogma asked me to do a guest post, encouraging “the more taboo, the better.” Naturally this led me first … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged abortion, adultery, bondage, cuffs, forbidden, gay, kinkiness, Minka Fieldstone, politics, prostitute-loving, RighteousVenting, scandal, sexual fetishes, taboo, taboos, The Scarlet Dogma
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Still Hot In My Own Not-So-Young-Anymore Kind’a Way
When I stumbled onto Stephanie Dolgoff’s photo in my Facebook sidebar, a girl I babysat for when I was around 12, and her 6, it prompted me to her awesome site, FormerlyHOT.com, a blog essentially about no longer being the … Continue reading
Posted in Sassy Single Mamas
Tagged 40's, dating, ex-New Yorker, experience, Formerly Hot, getting older, Hot, intimacy, Karen Catalan, New York Times bestseller, online dating, romance, sex, sex better, single mother, Stephanie Dolgoff
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Do You Taboo??? (The Sequel to my Prequel)
Happy Monday, folks. (Talk about an oxymoron). I’d like to turn your attention to a subject we visited a little while back: TABOOS So. Apparently, the biggest taboo is discussing taboos! Or, to be more precise, commenting on a blog … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged concept of taboos, forbidden fruits, Minka Fieldstone, RighteousVenting, taboo, taboos, taboos in American culture
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Taboo my Ass! Give me the Uncensored Version!
And now a few words about a very taboo subject… Dear Esteemed and Awesomely Cool Readers: The Scarlet Dogma has honored/flattered/scared the shit out of me by allowing me to speak from her sophisticated, sexy, sassy and provocative podium. Regarding … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged adultery, alcoholism, homosexuality, incest, masturbation, Minka Fieldstone, off limits, provocative, sex, taboo, taboo umbrella, uncensored, what is taboo
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Is There a Difference Between Being Considered ‘Attractive’ and ‘Fuckable?’
Last week’s post, “It’s the Age of the Sexy MILF – Once Taboo, Now Perversely Erotic,” seemed to arouse interest, (shocking) and provoke discussion—and since I seem to be heading down the road to erotica at some point soon, I … Continue reading
Posted in Dishin' Dogma
Tagged attractive, balancing act, being considered attractive, erotic, erotica, fuckability, fuckable, goddesses, Hollywood screenwriter, hot mom, maternal, maternal factor, midlife sexuality, MILF honor, milfdom, Minka Fieldstone, phone sex, sensual, sexy, sexy MILF
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It’s the Age of the Hot, Sexy MILF – Once Taboo, Now Perversely Erotic
We live in a glorious era in which motherhood has become synonymous with audacious, adventurous, confident and perversely seductive. It’s the age of the MILF, or to put more crudely, Mom I’d Like to Fuck—an acronym both repulsive and appealing. … Continue reading
Posted in Sassy Single Mamas
Tagged damn sexy woman, Demi, erotic, erotic fetis, eroticism, feminists, forbidden, Hot, hot housewives, hot mom, libido, Madonna, milf, milf fantasy, milfdom, Mom I'd Like To Fuck, motherhood, objectification, seducers, seduction, seductive, sex, sexuality, sexy, taboo
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Enough with the Broken Heart Woes – So you got Dumped. Get Over it!
We’ve all done it at some point―frantically search google for some profound wisdom or poetry on “soothing broken hearts” or “rebounding from the depths of hell after being dumped.” We are desperate for anything that will bring us solace and … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged accept that you've been dumped, been dumped, being dumped, broken heart, deal with it, get dumped, get over rejection, got dumped, rejection
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Preserving the Good name of Premarital Sex
While teen pregnancy is a credible issue that needs addressing, these overzealous abstinence-only teachings have not only defamed the good name of premarital sex, but done so at the expense of tarnishing the good characters of those girls who are … Continue reading
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Tagged chose premarital sex, consummation of marriage is sacred, expression of true love, honorable reasons for engaging in premarital sex, overzealous abstinence-only, preserving good name of premarital sex, sex goddess, sex prior to marriage, sexual behavior before marriage, sexual exploration, sexual practice arena, sexual skills, sexual talents, sexual training
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Has Chivalry ‘Checked Out’ or Still in Hibernation?
It was the late 70’s when I started dating, a period that seems both long ago and just yesterday. It was the mark of distinction to show some chivalrous behavior, even if it was a front put on for my … Continue reading
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Tagged ' hibernation, anti-male feminist, Billie Jean King, chivalrous, chivalry, chivalry a lost art, chivalry center stage, chivalry has 'checked out, defend honor of a woman, Gloria Steinem, hold door open, masculists, militant feminists, the dating phase
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Palin Preaching Abstinence – Pause before you Play or Pause (to pray) before you Play?
While abstinence campaigns that denounce pre-marital sex, may boost the morale of those teenagers practicing abstinence, or stimulate virgins to take that oath of celibacy, they make a mockery of their message by using spokespeople like America’s most famous teenage … Continue reading
Posted in Dishin' Dogma
Tagged abstinence, abstinence PSA, Bristol Palin, condom, contraception, credibility, knocked up, pause before you play, pre-marital sex, safe sex, Sarah Palin, teen pregnancy, teenage single mother, teenagers, The Candie’s Foundation, The Situation, Tripp
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The Female Animal: Uncovering the Mystery of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
Women rule the world. Okay, maybe I’m biased, but they do. Just look at them—raising us, feeding us, bathing us, nurturing us; hardwired to reassure and bolster each other against disappointment and confusion. Evolving from decade to decade with more … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged bithiness, cattiness, empowerment, evolutionary drive, female, female animal, female mind, girlfriends, hardwired, insecurities, jealous rage, jealousy, passive-aggressive, sisterhood, women rule, ya-ya sisterhood
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Mother Nature: The Wrath of a Diva
First let me just say, that the natural beauty created by Mother Nature is as miraculous as it is awesome. Yet in all her splendor, she can be unpredictable, childish, impetuous, weird and destructive. (sounds a bit psychotic to me, … Continue reading
Posted in The Scarlet Dogma
Tagged Diva, forces of devastation, hell hath no fury, Mother Nature, snow day, tantrum, wrath
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Sassy Single Mamas Don’t Mess Around..
So, what’s with the name “The Scarlet Dogma,” you ask? Would that be a take on, “The Scarlet… Correctomundo!…a slight take on “The Scarlet Letter,” bringing some attention to that sexy branding we single mamas are given, (the harlots, Jezebels … Continue reading
Posted in Sassy Single Mamas
Tagged ballsiness, cajones, chutzpah, de-stigmatizing, fortitude, humor, moxie, overcome adversity, sane, sassy, single, single mamas, single-parent families, smart, stigma, The Scarlet Dogma, the scarlet letter
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The Scarlet Dogma
WELCOME! Glad you’re here! So what’s all the fuss about? Well, aside from seeking catharsis, I created The Scarlet Dogma, as a venue to write and reflect on the irony and absurdity of life—my life, and how when you look … Continue reading
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Tagged ex-New Yorker, fifty-one, forties, humor, Karen Catalan, musings, online dating, rantings, single-parent, smart ass, The Scarlet Dogma, virtual playground
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